Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love

Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love -FACT: your BODY is an ESSENTIAL part of being attractive to women.

There are no ifs, ands, or buts about this matter. There's no getting around to maintaining a great body that'll keep women interested in you.

But before you start panicking, let me just say that it's NOT what you think.

Maybe you're already spiraling into a heap of self-pity at the thought of perfectly sculpted male models flaunting their brawn in magazines. Perhaps seeing those flawless celebrities on TV with screaming women in the background will lead you to think that you can't possibly measure up to them.

Perhaps you want to scream, 'Crikey, hot women will ONLY go for men like THOSE'how could *I* ever hope to date chicks of that caliber?!'

Well my friend, I want you to gather all those pre-conceived notions you have about physical looks and take a sledgehammer to them.

It's all part of reprogramming your ideas about seduction and attraction, which begins with Meet Your Sweet's groundbreaking book for men:

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So: if you believe that you have to look like those guys in order to be outrageously attractive, you're dead wrong. Look at the world around you and you'll know I'm right.

Take a stroll around the shopping mall, a park or any other populated area. You'll find average-looking guys who DON'T look like an actor are holding hands with the hottest babes in the vicinity.

I'm talking about the men who make you think 'HOW in the hell did she end up with HIM?'

Are you going to tell me that those men are just a fluke? Are you going to deny the fact that they simply know something that you DON'T?

Take the shutters off your eyes and realize that you too can pull this off! If a regular guy (on the outside at least) can date beautiful women, you can surely do the SAME.

The good news is that your less-than-perfect body is VERY much capable of attracting hordes of gorgeous women.

Even rock stars who dress like they crawled out of a dumpster are able to draw women like moths to a flame. Well, maybe they're a freak exception because of the baked-in charm that comes with being in a band.

Those guys live on another plane of reality, so the non-rock star demographic can still score big with the beautiful and brainy ladies.

First of all, you need to wrap your mind around this basic truth: the ability to attract women NEVER comes from an outside factor. It's already within you, and all you need is to get accustomed to using these inner traits.

Thus, you need to STOP comparing yourself to other men. Doing so is the path to madness.

OF COURSE there's going to be someone who's thinner, brawnier, richer, taller, or stronger than you.

BUT does that have anything to do with your own attractiveness? Does the existence of 'better' men statistically reduce your chances to have a sizeable piece of the action?

That's a big 'N' to the 'O'. There are literally millions of women out there, and at least a handful of them will find you attractive.

Yes, YOU. They can AND will see you in an attractive light if you unlearn whatever standards of physical beauty you've been made to believe in.

Don't fret about losing ALL the good women to other guys; there's plenty enough to go around for everyone.

The problem with us guys is that we're primarily into the visual aspect of attraction when it comes to selecting a partner. Before a man finds a girl attractive, she's gonna have to fit into his particular set of criteria.

This is why some men automatically ASSUME that women think the same way.

REALITY CHECK: NOT all women need their man to have impossibly good looks to feel attracted to them.

Look, I'm not saying that better-looking guys don't have an advantage. But what I am saying is that YOU don't need those things to attract women yourself.

And I'm not trying to contradict myself by saying that looks ARE important. It's just that it's not important in the way you might THINK it is.

Let me re-frame your concept of looking good. Physical attributes matter in a 'I-look-after-myself-and-care-about-being-a-clean-presentable-man-who-is-serious 'about-meeting-women' kind of way.

In other words, it's more of showing everyone that you have the HABIT of looking the very best you can.

Even a naturally handsome guy would horribly lower his chances if he let himself go. You know: not taking a shower, not shaving, letting his fingernails grow disgustingly long, and so on.

Basically, you're gonna have to be at your physical best, regardless of the mug you were born with. NO ONE is exempt from this ' well, at least those who want to meet and date women.

Let's get the matter of fitness out of the way. Even guys who are overweight can get beautiful women, but you'll have an easier time if you have a relatively proportional body.

Besides, ANY guy will stand to benefit from working out on a regular basis. But it doesn't have to be like the inhumanly merciless exercise program that the cast from '300' had to go through.

You don't need a six pack, nor are you going to war with the Persian army.

All you need to do is come up with a reasonable schedule (like 2-3 times weekly) for cardiovascular activity. Don't let the age-old 'I don't have time' excuse get in the way.

Even if you weren't trying to attract women, working out regularly has been clinically proven to greatly reduce the risk of getting all those life-threatening problems you always hear about.

Not to sound preachy, but if you're not going to do it for the ladies, at least do it for your own well-being. Any guy who stuck to a fixed workout schedule is bound to lose a few pounds at the very least!

Just as a warning, don't try one of those fancy-schmancy diets you might have heard about. It's not a good idea to shock your system by radically changing your eating habits.

You're better off consulting with a licensed dietician, nutritionist or physician for sound and realistic advice on eating healthy. You could probably stick to working out, but improving your diet (read: not starving yourself) is going to give you quicker results.

Ok, now we move on to DETAILS. Women love a guy who pays attention to details, so I'll give you a quick walkthough on this matter.

Let's talk about HAIR. Get a reputable stylist to sit you down and figure out which style TRULY matches your facial features and the general shape of your head.

For instance, guys who are balding should just go all the way and shave their thinning dome. Don't let errant, lingering, hairs dampen your sex appeal (think about Bill Murray's character from the movie 'Kingpin'!).

Beards and other forms of facial hair are fine as long as they're trimmed and properly kept under control. Unless you're only interested in fans of 'Lord of The Rings', don't think that sporting a Gandalf beard is going to improve your chances.

The same goes for hair from the chest downwards. Modern technology has made it easier for guys to trim these areas, so invest in an electric razor or any other method that will help you in this regard.

Would you want your date to neglect her nether regions as well? Didn't think so. Be a pal and return the favor.

Additionally, watch out for any stay hairs coming out of your ears or nostrils. Clippers and tweezers don't cost much, so pick one and get to work.

Your finger and toenails need to be short and free of any grime underneath. If you have the budget for it, go to a men's salon because they often include a foot scrubbing service along with the package. Otherwise, a pair of clippers isn't going to break the bank.

Crooked or yellowish teeth need to be treated as well. Check with a specialist on which option will work for your budget. There are plenty of options out there, such as kits you can use at home, or setting an appointment with a qualified dentist.

Trust me, a polished smile is eye candy to women and they'll definitely NOTICE it. So make the effort to do something about this matter.

Clothes are a bit of a tricky subject because everyone has different ideas about fashion. On a basic level however, your appearance must tell women that you took the time to look good by choosing threads that work best on your frame.

(Again, NOT about physical perfection')

Generally, clothes with holes and torn seams are a no-no. Shirts and pants that are old and worn out give the impression that you're immature and don't care about looking nice for the ladies.

When it comes to picking out stuff that'll look good on you, ask your friends and sales staff to help you make a decision. Sometimes it takes another pair of eyes to REALLY figure out the exact kind of clothes that suit your specific body type.

While your socks, shoes, belts, and wallet need to look crisp and neat (no scuffs or other battle damage please), they don't exactly have to cost you a pretty penny outright.

Plenty of quality stuff is on sale in most shopping malls, so start looking there. There's always a good bargain to be found if you take the time to look!

Lastly, don't overstuff your pocket. Try not to put anything in there except for your wallet, cellphone and car keys. The less bulkier your pockets are, the sharper you look.

And that about does it. Remember, setting aside enough time for these things will benefit you greatly because it will manifest in how you look.

Women will see AND appreciate the effort you've gone through. If we're defined by what we do repeatedly, then imagine what a habit of good style and grooming can do for you.

They don't even have to say it ' you'll find that they'll naturally be more open to chatting with you and you'll have an easier time approaching them.

Furthermore, knowing that you're at your best will greatly BOOST your self-confidence.

I mean, wouldn't you feel more RELAXED and LESS ANXIOUS because you're aware of how well-put together you are?

In case anyone hasn't told you, it's this exact kind of attitude that makes you more eye-catching to women.

Neglecting your looks will make you tense and even apologetic for the very space you're occupying. That's not a very attractive vibe to give off, now is it?

If you really want to seal the deal however, might I recommend an excellent book to bring out your seduction skills and self-confidence to the fullest:

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This empowering guide is a must-have for any guy who wants to be THE MAN when it comes to dating. The cool thing about it is that it'll also improve the other areas in your life.

After all, having a confident personality will help you succeed in ALL of your pursuits, whether it's your career or a relationship.

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Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love

Overcoming Myths About Men

Overcoming Myths About Men -Have you ever found yourself making the same mistake over and over simply because you didn't know any better at the time?

We're all human's from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.

These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster!

And you know what? This isn't a bad thing in itself because learning from our mistakes adds to our body of knowledge. However, wouldn't you want to AVOID making these boo-boos if you COULD?

This is why you need to UNLEARN any incorrect notions that could cloud your better judgment.

Sometimes, it just takes another pair of eyes to identify the mindsets that could drive you towards perfectly preventable mistakes. Gain some fresh insight by going here:

How many times have you gotten into a situation that yielded bad results because you had the wrong ideas in mind?

Certain perceptions of men can mess up your chances of having a great relationship with them. When we assume given things about the opposite sex, your actions could PREVENT the relationship from going in a healthy direction.

Thus, let's take a look at a couple of the most common myths about men which you need to steer clear of:

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#1: Guys are into "low maintenance" women.

Actually, this wouldn't be a problem if the term "low maintenance" wasn't misconstrued in the first place. Oftentimes, when some misguided women hear this adjective, they equate it to having no opinion of their own and being a complete PUSHOVER.

This attitude reminds me of the 1950's housewife archetype often portrayed in TV sitcoms of the same era.

You know what I'm talking about: Sugary-sweet on the outside, but brimming with unspoken emotions on the inside.

She's the one who's afraid to mess up a perfectly good relationship by speaking up too much. This is the kind of girl who has regrettably shut off her ability to express her feelings in a healthy way.

Sadly, this glaring misconception is unconsciously driving many women to behave in a very NEEDY way. In the back of their minds, they take the idea of being low-maintenance to such an EXTREME that they've become a mere shadow of their former selves.

Being 'low maintenance' in the truest sense of the word is defined by REALISTIC qualities.

This is a well-adjusted, reasonable person who doesn't throw a fit when her partner unwittingly makes the occasional offhand remark.

(And I emphasize 'OCCASIONAL', as opposed to 'habitually', but anyway')

This is also the kind of girl who can properly manage her feelings MOST of the time and keeps emotional meltdowns to a reasonable minimum. When it comes to mood swings, low maintenance women don't often have these and only under the most stressful of circumstances.

All in all, this is an ideal picture of what low maintenance is all about.

Therefore, it's NOT about being so laid-back to the point where you're frazzled and out of breath from trying to please a guy's every whim'

'or even TOLERATE selfishness.

And being low maintenance is definitely a far cry from transforming into a disturbingly submissive version of yourself.

Remember, there's a difference between a cool girl that doesn't get upset over the little things'

'and the emotional SLAVE who doesn't have any purpose aside from sacrificing her dignity and independence in the name of 'love'.

The mentality you should have is that a relationship is NOT the only thing you have going for you.

If you would make a map of your life right now, would you say it's dominated by huge chunks of land exclusively reserved for a boyfriend?

Or does this map have equally allocated areas meant for your family, friends, career and hobbies?

Even though we're always talking about how to get into a good, healthy relationship, you have to understand that this is only ONE PART of your multi-faceted self.

The SUM of your pursuits in life defines who you are.

If you build your universe around whether you're single or not, your resulting actions will create a very unattractive impression of neediness.

You wouldn't want anyone to believe that having a boyfriend is the ONLY thing that motivates you in life, right? You know you're TOO GOOD to act like that.

Don't get me wrong ' it's WONDERFUL to have a partner who adores and respects you. That crazy rush you feel when you fall in love can greatly inspire you do great things in the other areas of your life.

However, my point is that you should still retain a good sense of PERSPECTIVE when you *do* get into a relationship. What that means is that you'd be just as fine even if you didn't have a boyfriend at the moment.

Your life was just as fine before you met him, and you can certainly leave if you're not being treated the way you should be.

Of course, I don't mean this in an arrogant way nor am I suggesting that our partners should be the pushovers instead!

All I'm saying is that you shouldn't be scared to leave the comfort zone of your relationship if it isn't helping your personal growth.

Also, in no way should you cover up your true feelings by waiving your right to SPEAK UP if you need to (i.e. when the terms are unfavorable).

A good relationship is always a TWO-WAY street, so don't let the low-maintenance myth (or rather, misconception) tell you otherwise.

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#2: Falling in Love is Eternal Bliss Guaranteed

The other common trap women fall into is the assumption that those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings you first get when you meet someone will remain CONSTANT in the relationship.

However, this just isn't going to happen. Even happily married couples who've been together for decades know that their initial infatuation for each other evolved into a deeper and more MATURE sense of loving.

This kind of love goes beyond the initial rush that all new couples go through. This is the love that's weathered countless emotional storms, power struggles and other CHALLENGES.

The end result is a rock-solid relationship that doesn't constantly require you to feel the heart-quickening rush found in infatuation.

But there's no reason to panic over this fact of life. You shouldn't be afraid of outgrowing this primary stage in your relationship since better things are headed your way.

Over time, the falling in love stage will eventually be replaced by something more powerful in the long run. It's just that you're going to go through a series of trials as a couple before you get there.

Don't buy into the myth that loving your guy as you do now will be enough to get you through the years. Remember that neither of you are perfect; somewhere along the way, your 'little' differences are going to catch up to you.

(I've heard of couples breaking up over their brand of toothpaste, but hopefully your own relationship won't go to that extreme!)

I'll be honest with you here: you're going to FIGHT tooth and nail over things like this, and you're going to wake up and smell the coffee sooner or later. But power struggles are NORMAL after the familiarity settles in.

If you can accept the reality that love will inevitably undergo a transformation over time, then you'll have no reason to worry about the growing pains in your relationship.

Otherwise, insisting that everything will run smoothly or take care of itself will BLIND you to speedbumps in the future.

Of course, I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy the moment because being HAPPY is the point of having a relationship, right?

You just have to be aware that things will change eventually. However, you can stay happy as long as you're cool with having to deal with the reality check phase in due time.

(No need to worry your pretty little self about stuff UNTIL you have to!)

All in all, finding happiness in a man's arms is best done by keeping a REALISTIC perspective no matter how head over heels you may feel at a given moment.

There are a lot of impractical beliefs and notions that we women are unnecessarily exposed to in these modern times. Like it or not, picking up unrealistic perceptions of love and dating is just a TV show or DVD rental away.

In this confusing sea of misinformation, a sassy girl definitely needs to keep her wits afloat!

For the most part, whatever we read in books or see onscreen are distilled versions of life at best. It doesn't necessarily reflect what happens in REAL situations!

So we can't project unrealistic fantasies onto real life and NOT expect to run into problems!

The real world naturally includes the complexities of human behavior. You need to keep this in mind when considering what men want from us and what we should expect from them.

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Overcoming Myths About Men

Making Relationship Work - A Decision to Make

Relationship's Three Rings

Fr. Larry Tan, SDB; is one of my favorite Salesian Catechists because of his antics unusual for a priest. I remember him one time giving a humorous but truthful homily during a Sunday Service. He said: "There are three kinds of rings in every relationship. First is the Engagement ring; a symbol of commitment between two lovers. The ring is symbolic of an ownership of one party to the other and vice-versa. Second is the Wedding ring; a symbol of engagement in its highest form thereby both parties agree to bind their commitment legally and with the blessing of the Holy Matrimony; that what God had joined, let no man separates. The third is Suffer-ring; being the last ring symbolic of pain suffered from a bad relationship after losing its magical spell." His homily brought down all parishioners inside the church to laughter. However, I wish to add one more ring to what Fr. Larry had told. This is Tiri-ring (ring of lunacy); apt to partners who had lost their sanity because of unbearable pain and suffering caused by bad relationship. But was it really the relationship gone badly or the partners?

Always Looking for a Quick Way Out

I was browsing a thread from a social networking group when I chanced upon a forum titled: "Marriage or Live-in?" The majority is in favor of live-in over marriage simply because of convenience. In this age of modernization, everything comes easy; ATM that dispenses money anytime and anywhere, Instant Noodles, Instant Coffee and the like. It is a common nature of human to desire convenience. This common desire is the reason why we always dream of the impossible-to find the best partner in life. In so doing, people go in and out of a relationship, as if one so eager to find best buys from items up for sale. But the question is: Why would you look for a best mate where in fact you're not perfect either? The truth as we all know it; nobody is perfect, not even one.

There is No Bad Relationship But Bad Partners

When marriage started to lose its intimacy or when fairy tale's magic wanes out, couples are starting to entertain the thoughts of escaping to find another Romeo or perhaps, a new Juliet. How easy after all to get out of a messy relationship to find someone new. It is the thought perhaps that marriage, like any other contract will terminate at the end of a predetermined expiry date. We never realized however, that it is the couple who must consummate the relationship in order for it to work wonderfully as it should and not the other way around. Relationship fails not because it is bound to fail but it is because partners failed to do their respective share in the relationship.

Relationship is a Decision

Making a decision is arriving at a solution that ends uncertainty or that settles a dispute. It is distinguishing between options; some big, some little, some good and some evil. When making a decision, you must choose between little things such as chocolate or vanilla ice cream or big issues like which career to pursue or what house to buy. How about a decision whether to stay or get out of a bad marriage?

My marriage is an example of a relationship that almost gone off-track. If not for my wife's decision not to surrender to all of my misgivings, I would be singing a different tune at this point. How she bears to continuously loving an immature and conceited husband as I used to be is a decision she had made at the time when our marriage is on-the-rocks. Had she opted for an easy way out of a shaky relationship, I would not even have the moral ascendancy to write this article.

Making Relationship Work

We all made mistakes. Some are accidental while others are intentional and sinful. But what had happened in the past must stay in the past and should never be opened unless you want to unleash the curse inside Pandora's Box. Love never keeps records of wrongs and misgivings but good memories.

Many times I have used this favorite phrase: "There is no such thing as marriage made in heaven." But marriage could be a bed of roses or bed of thorns depending on how we want it to be. For a relationship to work requires love put into action. Love has to be compounded by hard work between two willing partners in order for a relationship to work. While it is true that love had started it all however, your good intention of making your relationship work will re-define the meaning of love from a "simple noun" into "verb."

The right decision is not always the popular and the easiest one. Ask for God's discernment in all the decision that you are going to make not only in your marriage but also to your life as a whole. And with that, you can never go wrong and you are sure that you will be making a good decision.

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How To Make Him Miss You Badly

How To Make Him Miss You Badly

By Slade Shaw
Author of Why Men Pull Away  

How To Make Him Miss You Badly - “Your body is away from me, but there is a window open from my heart to yours.”

- Rumi

Remember the last time you felt a powerful longing for that special someone?

Whether you’ve only known him for a while, or you’re in a long-term relationship with him…

…if he matters to you, being away from him is painful.

But how do you make him feel the SAME?

Suzanne, a preschool teacher from Sacramento, met Patrick through a mutual friend.

They went out a few times over the last few months, and they seem to be getting along fine. However, something told Suzanne that he’s not that into it as she is.

She shared, “I was always the one who texted him first. It would take him a couple of hours to reply, and it’d be like that the whole day.”

“Every time I’d try and reach out - like sending him a funny picture or video – I wouldn’t get much of a reaction out of him,” Suzanne added.

It was a bit frustrating for her because she really thought Patrick was a great guy, but didn’t feel like he missed Suzanne enough.

And it was mostly Suzanne who made the effort to plan things so they could go out again.

It got to a point where she started to think he was slipping away.

That was when she decided to do something about it.

“If I was going to lose him, I might as well try a few things to see if it would get him back,” Suzanne said.

After she made a few changes, it did make a difference.

Patrick started replying right away, and he was the one who texted first thing in the morning.

If he wasn’t sending Suzanne sweet messages throughout the day, he was making plans to see her.

And when they got together again, he finally told Suzanne what she wanted to hear:

“Hey, I really missed you.”

 

Are you doing enough?

 

For a lot of women, everything seems fine and dandy when they’re with their guy.

The tricky part is when they start spending time away from each other. There’s the risk of him drifting off and losing interest.

And the problem is that these women go about it the wrong way. They think that have to pull some attention-grabbing stunt like going on social media and playing the jealousy game.

Chances are he’s not going to fall for the “Look at me with these other guys on Facebook” trick.

It’s going to backfire and it won’t make him think about you more.

A better way is to give him hints and reminders that you’re someone worth thinking about 24/7.

With a little finesse, you can make him long for you like no other woman has.

Here are 7 Great Ways To Make A Man Miss You:

#1: A little info goes a long way

 

Oversharing is one of the biggest turn-offs for a guy. I can’t tell you how many times women have shot themselves in the foot with this one mistake!

This applies more to someone you’re just getting to know. And if you think he might be the The One, you’ll be tempted to open up to him.

I’ve noticed that women do this to strengthen their bond with a guy as quickly as possible.

It’s a big mistake though, because trying to rush things with a guy emotionally is not a good recipe for romance.

And trying to fast-track that connection with him is likely to freak him out.

Kevin, a lawyer from Florida, once told me, “Everything was going great with this girl Tiffany whom I asked out to dinner. But then she started talking about her exes. I nearly choked on my steak when she told me about…the things she used to do with them. I don’t know what her deal was, and the only reason I didn’t sneak out the bathroom window was because they didn’t have one!”

You’re probably not as explicit as Tiffany when it comes to personal details (I hope!), but you get the idea.

Avoid talking about the touchy, personal areas of your life for now. If ever you wander into that territory, don’t give detailed answers and change the subject.

There’s no need to fudge the facts, but you don’t need to beat him over the head with it, either.

There’s plenty of time for that stuff later on. For now, give him some room to wonder about what makes you tick!

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#2: Dress to kill

 

Of course, you want him to love you for who you are, and not just for what you look like.

If he only liked your body and nothing else, what kind of a relationship would that be?

But having said that, the way you present yourself STILL matters.

I don’t care if you’ve known the guy for 3 weeks or 3 decades. If you stop caring about your looks and all that other basic stuff, it sends the wrong message.

I’ll share a little secret with you - 99% of the men I know don’t want a supermodel for a partner.

They just need to know that she’s not going to trade her flattering outfits for a ratty shirt and sweatpants…

…stop going to the gym…

…or think hygiene is overrated.

I mean, even if someone like Brad Pitt dressed like a slob, you probably wouldn’t like him either, right?

(Ok, maybe that wasn’t the best example…but you know where I’m going with this.)

So, stay on top of your game. Choose the right wardrobe and makeup (as much or as little of it as you need) to underscore your femininity.

Let your clean, fresh appearance do the talking. Care about what you eat and burn those calories.

You don’t need to be perfect (because NO one is), and it’s not a prerequisite for making him miss you.

The point is to look good and more importantly, FEEL GOOD about yourself.

He’ll feel that confidence radiating from your whole body. And THAT’S what will keep him coming back for more.

 

#3: Hold your horses

 

As much as you want him to want you, you should always keep the long game in mind.

As we talked about earlier, a little intrigue is healthy in a relationship.

It makes him want to pursue you, and put in the work to win you over.

Men absolutely love a woman who’s up for a challenge. There’s a lot at stake when it comes to dating, but you still need to make it a FUN game for him.

Don’t give him what he wants all the time, and don’t smother him with sweetness.

Maybe on some days you’re extra affectionate (whether it’s face-to-face or through texts/emails/etc.)…

…then other times, you’re very friendly BUT platonic towards him.

Just when he thinks, “I’ve got this in the bag”, you come out of nowhere and play mental judo with him.

Oh, how guys love/hate this one!

Trust me, as a guy, I love being TEASED.

Bear in mind however, he needs to know he’s still in the game and that this will eventually lead somewhere.

Keep it light, playful and good-natured so that he sticks around and thinks about you.

 

#4: Get a life

 

An awesome one, that is.

I don’t know about other guys, but I’m not sure how to feel about a woman who’s obviously not doing much aside from waiting for me to call her.

Men actually don’t like it when you’re TOO available for them.

It’s kind of like playing chess with someone…

How would you feel if the other person suddenly yelled out, “Checkmate, you got me!” even before you made the first move?

It wouldn’t be any fun, right?

Again, it’s all about CHALLENGE.

And living a happening, interesting life is one way to make your guy feel the bittersweet pain of your absence.

Don’t go on the ol’ social media machine and post pictures of you at a party…

…while you’re spending your free time watching “Sex and the City” reruns in bed with a bag of chips.

(Do women actually do that? If not, just insert your sedentary activity of choice.)

Live your life from a genuine place and invest your time in doing things that help you GROW.

And sometimes, that means you’ll have to hold off on seeing him (which is way different from dropping off the face of the earth) because you’ve already made plans before he asked you.

Women who are totally engaged with their lives effortlessly project a grounded, mature (read: NOT boring), yet fascinating personality.

When he sees how much fun you’re having from doing the things you’re passionate about…

…he’ll want to gatecrash the party and get in on the action!

He’ll be like, “She looks cool. I can totally see myself hanging out with her. Bet she’s amazing in bed, too.”

(Whoops, did I just say that? But it’s true...)

 

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#5: Positivity breeds positivity

 

Fun has been a recurring theme in this article, and for good reason.

Men don’t want to be around someone who brings down their energy. We’re driven, competitive, and we like people who lift us up.

And it’s the same with a romantic partner: no one likes a party pooper.

Look, I know you can’t be Pollyanna and spout platitudes of sunshine and happiness all the time. We all have our bad days.

Nevertheless, it’s important to him that you have a generally positive attitude - and not walk around with a dark cloud hanging over your head.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself:

- “Do I find myself complaining a lot? Do I rant on social media every time something bad happens - or comment on every piece of bad news out there?”

- “When I’m with my guy, do I talk crap about my co-workers, relatives and friends?”

- “Do I try to see the best in people and situations? Or do I tend to assume the opposite?”

I’m not saying that you’re a miserable person, but it does help to do a little self-reflection and awareness – especially when you’re around your guy.

 

#6: Practice radio silence every now and then

 

Nope, I don’t mean cutting off all contact and see how he reacts.

Playing hard to get to an extent is fine, but it isn’t about manipulating his emotions or making him feel bad.

So all I’m asking is that you don’t broadcast every single thing you’re doing.

He doesn’t need to know what you’re having for lunch, or how Linda from Marketing hogged the floor during the office meeting.

Social networking sites are a bit to blame because it adds to the “Gimme my 15 minutes” culture.

And technology in general is making it way TOO easy for us to bombard other people with the mundane aspects of our lives.

This special guy of yours isn’t your best friend or mother. He’s perfectly fine wondering a little what you’re up to.

In fact, it’s the perfect way to avoid making him feel crowded. Give him the headspace to think about you, rather than trying too hard to insert yourself in his thoughts.

 

#7: Finish STRONG

 

Ever heard the expression “stick the landing”?

It’s when an athlete finishes a move in style (like in gymnastics) and strikes a cool pose – often to thunderous applause.

In dating, you can do the same and leave a strong impression in a guy’s mind. That way, he’ll be counting the minutes until he sees you again.

Here are a few ways to do this:

• Don’t let the date go and on. Eventually, the energy level will go down and that’s not the best time to say your goodbyes. Have a set time, and let him know you have to be up early for work tomorrow.
  
  
• So, that means you’ll need to make him feel great while he’s with you. Don’t make the conversation all about you, give him a chance to share his stories, and tell your own (positive and funny ones work best).
  
  
• Touch his arm, punch him playfully on the shoulder or mess up his hair (if the situation allows it). Physical cues of attraction are key.

After your date, he’ll keep replaying that wonderful experience in his head over and over again.

Remember when Netflix wasn’t a thing yet and you had to wait a whole week to see the next episode?

I kinda miss that, and I actually liked cliffhangers because it gave me something to look forward to.

Plus, it was nice to be able to digest what I just watched. Nowadays, we’re overindulging ourselves by binge-watching the whole thing till our eyes glaze over.

In the same way, you’ve got to pace yourself so he doesn’t get sick of you. That’s the whole point of the game.

But if you’ve been doing most of what we’ve just talked about and he’s STILL pulling away…

…there might be something more serious going on here.

A lot of women struggle with this problem, and they’re often clueless why they can’t stop their man from slipping through their fingers.

However, you don’t have to feel powerless about this situation.

There’s still hope and you can start by learning about Why Men Pull Away in this shocking video:

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