Using Romance To Get A Woman's Attention

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Now I want to rearrange whatever concept you may have about ROMANCE. I think that a lot of men are blowing their attempts to win over a girl because of the misconceptions they have about this matter.

Stop me if this sounds familiar. Guy asks out girl on their first date, girl says yes, guy brings out the heavy guns: flowers, chocolates, dinner for two at the most expensive restaurant in town.

Then, girl reacts in the most natural way by FREAKING OUT.

Why? Simple' she's cornered, pressured and rushed into feeling things that are forced upon her'

'INSTEAD of being made to experience these intended emotions on her own.

Listen: spending on a date with a budget fit for a blockbuster movie does NOT a make for a romantic night.

What I want to drill into your head right now is the importance of being romantic and how to NATURALLY generate such feelings within her.

The key to this is in optimizing your overall attitude and mindset for romantic awesomeness. Being romantic is not just some mask you can put on and off when needed.

It's a genuine part of your personality that is present in the different situations you'll get into with her. Whether you're approaching her for the first time or out on the hundredth date with your girl, romance should be ingrained throughout.

But what does being romantic TRULY mean? Right from the get-go, she needs to feel your ATTRACTION for her.

Otherwise, you're at risk of being thrown in with the rest of the other guys who've been banished to the PLATONIC FRIENDS zone. Trust me, getting out of the Bermuda Triangle will seem easier by comparison.

So your lady has to get the general drift that you find her feminine charms hard to resist. So hard in fact, that you feel compelled to get to know her better and know what makes her tick.

What woman wouldn't be curious (at the very least!) by the fact that some dude oozing with self-confidence is interested in her?

Since you want to make it known that you're into her and that she's hijacked your brain, does that mean you have to be crass, vulgar or PUSHY about it? Of course not.

Romance is a matter of ESCALATION. Start off with ambiguous hints about your true feelings until such a time that you can build enough familiarity and comfort to take things further.

As the saying (appropriately) goes, you get the chick by hatching the egg ' and NOT by smashing it. Going the traditional route of overkill on the first date is a prime example of 'smashing the egg'.

Baby steps never hurt anyone AS LONG as you're consistent with your efforts to turn up the heat'

'and NOT giving the connection a chance to fade away.

A skilled blacksmith knows he can't hope to make something worthwhile if you strike the iron long after it's cooled down!

So, let me give you several unconventional ways to turn up the romance without looking like a sap:

HUMOR is paramount. No guy got anywhere with a girl without first making her laugh a bit. Laughter is the best tool to loosen her up and make her FEEL GOOD.

Just make sure it's not the self-depreciating kind of humor because it's not a good thing for her to laugh (too much) at you. Sure, it's fine to make fun of something funny that may have happened to you in the past, but don't make jokes about 'what a loser you are' (or anything else to that effect) ' she just might believe you!

Learn how to push the boundaries just a little bit. You can do this by teasing her, making fun of her, and giving her 'a hard time' in a funny and sweet way.

Many women appreciate it when a guy pokes lighthearted (read: NOT mean-spirited) fun at them. When he's not afraid to test the waters, it says a lot about his self-confidence.

Don't be afraid to discuss sexual matters as long as it's within good taste and in the right context. Of course, you'll want to handle this with a bit of caution.

You obviously don't want to talk about sex when meeting her for the first time. But if she brings up the subject during your third date, by all means talk about it in a light and casual manner.

Just keep in mind not to be graphic and don't flinch or look uneasy when you do talk about it. The point is to let her know that the topic doesn't terrify you.

Besides, this is all part of building up the tension to a nice, simmering boil. This is where the term 'slow burn' takes on a positive meaning.

Talk about emotions. Women have a natural affinity for expressing and discussing their feelings, whether it's joy, sadness etc. Use this to your advantage by getting her to talk about her ROMANTIC feelings.

To give you a quick recap of what I said last time, try asking her questions related to romance. Think of a situation you saw or heard about, describe it to her, give your opinion about it and ask HER what she thinks.

This is a great way for her to associate you with the emotions you want her to feel. When she thinks of you, you can bet that it'll be in a romantic light.

Find a reason to touch her. Again, this must be done in good taste especially if you're just getting to know her. By this I mean touching only non-erogenous zones that won't get you in hot water.

For instance, guide her with your hand on the small of her back (but no lower than that) if she's going to sit down. Also, touch her hand (just) a FEW times when you're stressing a particular point during a conversation.

The idea here is to get her used to physical contact with you because building COMFORT is the key to romance. A line from the movie 'Pulp Fiction' says it all:

'This sensual thing's goin' on that nobody's talkin about, but YOU know it and SHE knows it''

Ain't that the truth! Just because you're touching her somewhere perfectly neutral doesn't mean it won't reverberate deep in her subconscious.

There's certainly nothing wrong with a healthy dose of ambiguity. In a woman's mind, red-hot attraction begins with thoughts along the lines of 'IS he or isn't he into me??'

You have no idea how GREAT it is to have her thinking about you like that.

While the cheesy notion of romance is out, chivalry is still in style. Make it a point to open the door for her, whether she's getting in and out of the car, or going in a restaurant (hopefully not the kind that costs and arm and a leg, but anyway').

Order for the both of you by recommending a dish or drink that you think will suit her taste. Don't make a big deal if she prefers something else; let her order what she does want, but do take the initiative to make a decision (in a non-pushy way of course).

There's a little caveat to all of this though: your gestures should match the level of interest between you two. If you're on the second date, it's a good idea to hold a bit back on the mushy stuff. TEASING is more appropriate than going all out with the romance.

If you're already sleeping together, then it's pretty safe to say that you can go for the bigger measures of romance. You've already reached a significant milestone so your girl now has greater access to your soft side (as compared to when you just met).

(Of course, you're NOT going to tell her you can't do stuff for her because she doesn't deserve it yet'unless you want to end up single real quick. Just give out the necessary amount of affection depending on the time!)

In general, you'll want to make her feel SPECIAL in a way that's appropriate to the current state of things between you two. It does take a bit of an eye to spot these subtle differences, but in time you'll develop a sixth sense about these things.

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With practice makes perfect.

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If you want quality women, and want more than just scripted lines and one night stands, if you want the confidence and winning attitude to take your skills and success to the next level, let Slade Shaw and the team challenge your beliefs about what women really want and how to be the guy that gets her attention, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.

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Using Romance To Get A Woman's Attention

Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love

Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love -FACT: your BODY is an ESSENTIAL part of being attractive to women.

There are no ifs, ands, or buts about this matter. There's no getting around to maintaining a great body that'll keep women interested in you.

But before you start panicking, let me just say that it's NOT what you think.

Maybe you're already spiraling into a heap of self-pity at the thought of perfectly sculpted male models flaunting their brawn in magazines. Perhaps seeing those flawless celebrities on TV with screaming women in the background will lead you to think that you can't possibly measure up to them.

Perhaps you want to scream, 'Crikey, hot women will ONLY go for men like THOSE'how could *I* ever hope to date chicks of that caliber?!'

Well my friend, I want you to gather all those pre-conceived notions you have about physical looks and take a sledgehammer to them.

It's all part of reprogramming your ideas about seduction and attraction, which begins with Meet Your Sweet's groundbreaking book for men:

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So: if you believe that you have to look like those guys in order to be outrageously attractive, you're dead wrong. Look at the world around you and you'll know I'm right.

Take a stroll around the shopping mall, a park or any other populated area. You'll find average-looking guys who DON'T look like an actor are holding hands with the hottest babes in the vicinity.

I'm talking about the men who make you think 'HOW in the hell did she end up with HIM?'

Are you going to tell me that those men are just a fluke? Are you going to deny the fact that they simply know something that you DON'T?

Take the shutters off your eyes and realize that you too can pull this off! If a regular guy (on the outside at least) can date beautiful women, you can surely do the SAME.

The good news is that your less-than-perfect body is VERY much capable of attracting hordes of gorgeous women.

Even rock stars who dress like they crawled out of a dumpster are able to draw women like moths to a flame. Well, maybe they're a freak exception because of the baked-in charm that comes with being in a band.

Those guys live on another plane of reality, so the non-rock star demographic can still score big with the beautiful and brainy ladies.

First of all, you need to wrap your mind around this basic truth: the ability to attract women NEVER comes from an outside factor. It's already within you, and all you need is to get accustomed to using these inner traits.

Thus, you need to STOP comparing yourself to other men. Doing so is the path to madness.

OF COURSE there's going to be someone who's thinner, brawnier, richer, taller, or stronger than you.

BUT does that have anything to do with your own attractiveness? Does the existence of 'better' men statistically reduce your chances to have a sizeable piece of the action?

That's a big 'N' to the 'O'. There are literally millions of women out there, and at least a handful of them will find you attractive.

Yes, YOU. They can AND will see you in an attractive light if you unlearn whatever standards of physical beauty you've been made to believe in.

Don't fret about losing ALL the good women to other guys; there's plenty enough to go around for everyone.

The problem with us guys is that we're primarily into the visual aspect of attraction when it comes to selecting a partner. Before a man finds a girl attractive, she's gonna have to fit into his particular set of criteria.

This is why some men automatically ASSUME that women think the same way.

REALITY CHECK: NOT all women need their man to have impossibly good looks to feel attracted to them.

Look, I'm not saying that better-looking guys don't have an advantage. But what I am saying is that YOU don't need those things to attract women yourself.

And I'm not trying to contradict myself by saying that looks ARE important. It's just that it's not important in the way you might THINK it is.

Let me re-frame your concept of looking good. Physical attributes matter in a 'I-look-after-myself-and-care-about-being-a-clean-presentable-man-who-is-serious 'about-meeting-women' kind of way.

In other words, it's more of showing everyone that you have the HABIT of looking the very best you can.

Even a naturally handsome guy would horribly lower his chances if he let himself go. You know: not taking a shower, not shaving, letting his fingernails grow disgustingly long, and so on.

Basically, you're gonna have to be at your physical best, regardless of the mug you were born with. NO ONE is exempt from this ' well, at least those who want to meet and date women.

Let's get the matter of fitness out of the way. Even guys who are overweight can get beautiful women, but you'll have an easier time if you have a relatively proportional body.

Besides, ANY guy will stand to benefit from working out on a regular basis. But it doesn't have to be like the inhumanly merciless exercise program that the cast from '300' had to go through.

You don't need a six pack, nor are you going to war with the Persian army.

All you need to do is come up with a reasonable schedule (like 2-3 times weekly) for cardiovascular activity. Don't let the age-old 'I don't have time' excuse get in the way.

Even if you weren't trying to attract women, working out regularly has been clinically proven to greatly reduce the risk of getting all those life-threatening problems you always hear about.

Not to sound preachy, but if you're not going to do it for the ladies, at least do it for your own well-being. Any guy who stuck to a fixed workout schedule is bound to lose a few pounds at the very least!

Just as a warning, don't try one of those fancy-schmancy diets you might have heard about. It's not a good idea to shock your system by radically changing your eating habits.

You're better off consulting with a licensed dietician, nutritionist or physician for sound and realistic advice on eating healthy. You could probably stick to working out, but improving your diet (read: not starving yourself) is going to give you quicker results.

Ok, now we move on to DETAILS. Women love a guy who pays attention to details, so I'll give you a quick walkthough on this matter.

Let's talk about HAIR. Get a reputable stylist to sit you down and figure out which style TRULY matches your facial features and the general shape of your head.

For instance, guys who are balding should just go all the way and shave their thinning dome. Don't let errant, lingering, hairs dampen your sex appeal (think about Bill Murray's character from the movie 'Kingpin'!).

Beards and other forms of facial hair are fine as long as they're trimmed and properly kept under control. Unless you're only interested in fans of 'Lord of The Rings', don't think that sporting a Gandalf beard is going to improve your chances.

The same goes for hair from the chest downwards. Modern technology has made it easier for guys to trim these areas, so invest in an electric razor or any other method that will help you in this regard.

Would you want your date to neglect her nether regions as well? Didn't think so. Be a pal and return the favor.

Additionally, watch out for any stay hairs coming out of your ears or nostrils. Clippers and tweezers don't cost much, so pick one and get to work.

Your finger and toenails need to be short and free of any grime underneath. If you have the budget for it, go to a men's salon because they often include a foot scrubbing service along with the package. Otherwise, a pair of clippers isn't going to break the bank.

Crooked or yellowish teeth need to be treated as well. Check with a specialist on which option will work for your budget. There are plenty of options out there, such as kits you can use at home, or setting an appointment with a qualified dentist.

Trust me, a polished smile is eye candy to women and they'll definitely NOTICE it. So make the effort to do something about this matter.

Clothes are a bit of a tricky subject because everyone has different ideas about fashion. On a basic level however, your appearance must tell women that you took the time to look good by choosing threads that work best on your frame.

(Again, NOT about physical perfection')

Generally, clothes with holes and torn seams are a no-no. Shirts and pants that are old and worn out give the impression that you're immature and don't care about looking nice for the ladies.

When it comes to picking out stuff that'll look good on you, ask your friends and sales staff to help you make a decision. Sometimes it takes another pair of eyes to REALLY figure out the exact kind of clothes that suit your specific body type.

While your socks, shoes, belts, and wallet need to look crisp and neat (no scuffs or other battle damage please), they don't exactly have to cost you a pretty penny outright.

Plenty of quality stuff is on sale in most shopping malls, so start looking there. There's always a good bargain to be found if you take the time to look!

Lastly, don't overstuff your pocket. Try not to put anything in there except for your wallet, cellphone and car keys. The less bulkier your pockets are, the sharper you look.

And that about does it. Remember, setting aside enough time for these things will benefit you greatly because it will manifest in how you look.

Women will see AND appreciate the effort you've gone through. If we're defined by what we do repeatedly, then imagine what a habit of good style and grooming can do for you.

They don't even have to say it ' you'll find that they'll naturally be more open to chatting with you and you'll have an easier time approaching them.

Furthermore, knowing that you're at your best will greatly BOOST your self-confidence.

I mean, wouldn't you feel more RELAXED and LESS ANXIOUS because you're aware of how well-put together you are?

In case anyone hasn't told you, it's this exact kind of attitude that makes you more eye-catching to women.

Neglecting your looks will make you tense and even apologetic for the very space you're occupying. That's not a very attractive vibe to give off, now is it?

If you really want to seal the deal however, might I recommend an excellent book to bring out your seduction skills and self-confidence to the fullest:

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This empowering guide is a must-have for any guy who wants to be THE MAN when it comes to dating. The cool thing about it is that it'll also improve the other areas in your life.

After all, having a confident personality will help you succeed in ALL of your pursuits, whether it's your career or a relationship.

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If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of seduction self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet's 'Make Her Crave You,' your first stop for gal-getting strategies that really deliver.

If you want quality women, and want more than just scripted lines and one night stands, if you want the confidence and winning attitude to take your skills and success to the next level, let Slade Shaw and the team challenge your beliefs about what women really want and how to be the guy that gets her attention, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.

http://www.meetysweet.com/attractwomen

No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real men!

Tips For Getting And Keeping The Body Women Love

Overcoming Myths About Men

Overcoming Myths About Men -Have you ever found yourself making the same mistake over and over simply because you didn't know any better at the time?

We're all human's from time to time we unintentionally make the occasional blunder due to a bunch of mistaken assumptions running in the back of our mind.

These false beliefs keep us blissfully unaware that our ill-informed decisions will actually lead us to disaster!

And you know what? This isn't a bad thing in itself because learning from our mistakes adds to our body of knowledge. However, wouldn't you want to AVOID making these boo-boos if you COULD?

This is why you need to UNLEARN any incorrect notions that could cloud your better judgment.

Sometimes, it just takes another pair of eyes to identify the mindsets that could drive you towards perfectly preventable mistakes. Gain some fresh insight by going here:

How many times have you gotten into a situation that yielded bad results because you had the wrong ideas in mind?

Certain perceptions of men can mess up your chances of having a great relationship with them. When we assume given things about the opposite sex, your actions could PREVENT the relationship from going in a healthy direction.

Thus, let's take a look at a couple of the most common myths about men which you need to steer clear of:

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#1: Guys are into "low maintenance" women.

Actually, this wouldn't be a problem if the term "low maintenance" wasn't misconstrued in the first place. Oftentimes, when some misguided women hear this adjective, they equate it to having no opinion of their own and being a complete PUSHOVER.

This attitude reminds me of the 1950's housewife archetype often portrayed in TV sitcoms of the same era.

You know what I'm talking about: Sugary-sweet on the outside, but brimming with unspoken emotions on the inside.

She's the one who's afraid to mess up a perfectly good relationship by speaking up too much. This is the kind of girl who has regrettably shut off her ability to express her feelings in a healthy way.

Sadly, this glaring misconception is unconsciously driving many women to behave in a very NEEDY way. In the back of their minds, they take the idea of being low-maintenance to such an EXTREME that they've become a mere shadow of their former selves.

Being 'low maintenance' in the truest sense of the word is defined by REALISTIC qualities.

This is a well-adjusted, reasonable person who doesn't throw a fit when her partner unwittingly makes the occasional offhand remark.

(And I emphasize 'OCCASIONAL', as opposed to 'habitually', but anyway')

This is also the kind of girl who can properly manage her feelings MOST of the time and keeps emotional meltdowns to a reasonable minimum. When it comes to mood swings, low maintenance women don't often have these and only under the most stressful of circumstances.

All in all, this is an ideal picture of what low maintenance is all about.

Therefore, it's NOT about being so laid-back to the point where you're frazzled and out of breath from trying to please a guy's every whim'

'or even TOLERATE selfishness.

And being low maintenance is definitely a far cry from transforming into a disturbingly submissive version of yourself.

Remember, there's a difference between a cool girl that doesn't get upset over the little things'

'and the emotional SLAVE who doesn't have any purpose aside from sacrificing her dignity and independence in the name of 'love'.

The mentality you should have is that a relationship is NOT the only thing you have going for you.

If you would make a map of your life right now, would you say it's dominated by huge chunks of land exclusively reserved for a boyfriend?

Or does this map have equally allocated areas meant for your family, friends, career and hobbies?

Even though we're always talking about how to get into a good, healthy relationship, you have to understand that this is only ONE PART of your multi-faceted self.

The SUM of your pursuits in life defines who you are.

If you build your universe around whether you're single or not, your resulting actions will create a very unattractive impression of neediness.

You wouldn't want anyone to believe that having a boyfriend is the ONLY thing that motivates you in life, right? You know you're TOO GOOD to act like that.

Don't get me wrong ' it's WONDERFUL to have a partner who adores and respects you. That crazy rush you feel when you fall in love can greatly inspire you do great things in the other areas of your life.

However, my point is that you should still retain a good sense of PERSPECTIVE when you *do* get into a relationship. What that means is that you'd be just as fine even if you didn't have a boyfriend at the moment.

Your life was just as fine before you met him, and you can certainly leave if you're not being treated the way you should be.

Of course, I don't mean this in an arrogant way nor am I suggesting that our partners should be the pushovers instead!

All I'm saying is that you shouldn't be scared to leave the comfort zone of your relationship if it isn't helping your personal growth.

Also, in no way should you cover up your true feelings by waiving your right to SPEAK UP if you need to (i.e. when the terms are unfavorable).

A good relationship is always a TWO-WAY street, so don't let the low-maintenance myth (or rather, misconception) tell you otherwise.

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#2: Falling in Love is Eternal Bliss Guaranteed

The other common trap women fall into is the assumption that those butterfly-in-the-stomach feelings you first get when you meet someone will remain CONSTANT in the relationship.

However, this just isn't going to happen. Even happily married couples who've been together for decades know that their initial infatuation for each other evolved into a deeper and more MATURE sense of loving.

This kind of love goes beyond the initial rush that all new couples go through. This is the love that's weathered countless emotional storms, power struggles and other CHALLENGES.

The end result is a rock-solid relationship that doesn't constantly require you to feel the heart-quickening rush found in infatuation.

But there's no reason to panic over this fact of life. You shouldn't be afraid of outgrowing this primary stage in your relationship since better things are headed your way.

Over time, the falling in love stage will eventually be replaced by something more powerful in the long run. It's just that you're going to go through a series of trials as a couple before you get there.

Don't buy into the myth that loving your guy as you do now will be enough to get you through the years. Remember that neither of you are perfect; somewhere along the way, your 'little' differences are going to catch up to you.

(I've heard of couples breaking up over their brand of toothpaste, but hopefully your own relationship won't go to that extreme!)

I'll be honest with you here: you're going to FIGHT tooth and nail over things like this, and you're going to wake up and smell the coffee sooner or later. But power struggles are NORMAL after the familiarity settles in.

If you can accept the reality that love will inevitably undergo a transformation over time, then you'll have no reason to worry about the growing pains in your relationship.

Otherwise, insisting that everything will run smoothly or take care of itself will BLIND you to speedbumps in the future.

Of course, I'm not saying you shouldn't enjoy the moment because being HAPPY is the point of having a relationship, right?

You just have to be aware that things will change eventually. However, you can stay happy as long as you're cool with having to deal with the reality check phase in due time.

(No need to worry your pretty little self about stuff UNTIL you have to!)

All in all, finding happiness in a man's arms is best done by keeping a REALISTIC perspective no matter how head over heels you may feel at a given moment.

There are a lot of impractical beliefs and notions that we women are unnecessarily exposed to in these modern times. Like it or not, picking up unrealistic perceptions of love and dating is just a TV show or DVD rental away.

In this confusing sea of misinformation, a sassy girl definitely needs to keep her wits afloat!

For the most part, whatever we read in books or see onscreen are distilled versions of life at best. It doesn't necessarily reflect what happens in REAL situations!

So we can't project unrealistic fantasies onto real life and NOT expect to run into problems!

The real world naturally includes the complexities of human behavior. You need to keep this in mind when considering what men want from us and what we should expect from them.

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This article comes to you courtesy of www.meetysweet.com

If you are serious about changing your love life success, the first step on your journey of self discovery needs to be with Meet Your Sweet's Get a Guy Guide.

If you want genuine men, and not just any man, let Mirabelle Summers and the team challenge your beliefs about love and attraction, and show you the way to become a seduction success story.

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No games. No scripted lines. Real life dating advice for real women!

Overcoming Myths About Men